Feelings.

Have you ever cared about someone enough that you are constantly worried about them? of course you have what am i saying. you think about this person who may or may not be in trouble and is it that sometimes a protective quality takes over?

but consider, why care enough for that though? it creates a weakness in our otherwise hard will core. some would say :"we care because we want to care".

so you want to create a weakness?

but then again saying this would make me sounds cold hearted right? i mean im human am i not so i must have some caring properties to myself. of course i do, but i always consider the other side of the story. why is it that for some dangerous situation that the military will choose the man with no wife and no kids, really no home back where ever they came from, for those missions. because he has nothing to lose right? and if he is caught then they cannot use anyone against him really to gain any information or leverage.

but then again, why do they not go after the man that is married and has kids when they used to have a draft? they believed it may have caused him harm and it would give an enemy a large amount of persuasion over him.

but what about the strong parts in it? when we care and when we love we are able to band together as one strong force to over come almost any obstacles, right? we become better people do we not when we care and love in our lives about other people. we look better in other peoples eyes do we not? but then again there are those people out there that notice and can use that very feeling of caring and love against you.

so in a case like this one, can you not say love (since the love is the base of it all in this case) is a double edged tool? one for healing and one for killing? think about it, think of people who could use or hurt the ones you love to make you do something. or could you stand that persons pain?